Pillar Three
The work that reaches past the counseling room.
Marriage ministry, chaplaincy, consultation, training, and teaching.
Most of what people need is not a counseling relationship. It is a minister at the bedside. A couple prepared before the wedding rather than repaired after it. A pastor who needs somewhere to think out loud, or a church that wants its people equipped to care for one another.
Pillar Three is how we strengthen the Church and serve people well outside a counselor's caseload. It is also where we raise up the next generation of counselors, so that fewer people get sent away.
Marriage ministry
Premarital counseling
A six-session course for couples preparing to marry. Curriculum, workbook exercises you do together, and an optional assessment. See the course.
Wedding officiating
Ordained ministers of RCA officiate weddings across California, often for couples who complete the premarital course. You do not need to be a Christian or a church member. See wedding officiating.
Marriage enrichment
The same work, for couples already married. Not because something is broken, but because a marriage is worth deliberate attention long after the wedding.
Additional services
Chaplaincy
The ministry of presence, under its own written standards.
Penitential communication
Confession heard by a trained minister, in person, under clergy privilege at full strength. No record, no report, no file. Not yet open. Read more.
Consultation
For pastors, church leaders, and organizations: a place to think through a situation, a policy, or a care program with someone who does this work.
Education and training
Courses, seminars, pastoral-care training, and mentorship of counselors in formation.
Community teaching and events
Workshops, conference speaking, church partnerships, and public teaching on care and mental health from a biblical frame.
Resources
Written, recorded, and published materials advancing the mission.